For me it is the ability of a person to see outside their shadow. When I give advice, I tend to try and put myself in the other person’s shoes, and really try and look and perceive what the other person might be seeing. It has been a fairly easy process to undertake, primarily because…
Shit. So many options, so little of me to spread around. It’s nostalgia that brings me back, a little something, tinged with remembrance. Bme was my first internet community, the first place I vomited my words out onto screen, the first place that united me and a bunch of strangers via a common thread: tattoos…
Your Horoscope for March 22, 2005 LIBRA It may sometimes seem as if the world is out to get you, but as Venus, your ruler, moves into the partnership area of your chart today you will realize how wide off the mark that assumption is. Most people, in fact, are just like you: charming, sociable…
I got this piece of advice today: “Be zen, D”. I agree. I finally let the storm slide off of me and roll down into the gutter, where it belongs. I am as Zen as can be. No tears. No fears. Not a care in the world. And thank god it’s finally Spring. But, for…
These are the events: Francis left. My boy is gone until Thursday. I can’t find my debit card. I cried to Candy, and I cannot seem to stop. I can’t stop eating candy, mostly because it’s cheap, and half because it’s just about time to go nuts. And it’s beautiful outside. I wanna go buy…
I have been doing a lot of that thing we do when we don’t want to hurt or insult our friends or the people that they know, lately. I have conceded to accept a cessation of drama, because I am not a jerk. It started with not wanting to make a phone company employee feel…
I do the “I love my friends” post often enough, but it’s nice when someone tells you something that makes a lot more sense in the grand scheme of things. Mr. D is one of the most brilliant minds alive, I swear I don’t know what I would do without his advice, his words of…
Anyways…words are knuckled on the side of my brain, waiting to drip down in explosion out of my mouth. I got asked to runway model this fashion show in town next Friday, at a bar no less, and I am having issues deciding what to do. The bar fashion show is usually pretty stupid, makeup…
I just got through watching Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind with Francis, who had never seen it. I love that movie, so well done, so creative and a such a flexing middle finger to the normal format. I think people hate it because they recognize themselves in it. Or maybe they think people aren’t…
I realized something: I only hang out with homos. And it’s true. I don’t wax about having a lot of friends. The people I seem to see the most all possess the same universal quality: they are homosexual. Valerie, Valerie, and B-whoremo. It’s not that I have an issue hanging out with heterosexual people, being…
